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Relationships and The Pattern

The Pattern applies to people. Reality first. The gap named honestly. A correction made and held.

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The Pattern was not designed exclusively for individual realignment. Every step of the framework applies directly to the relationships you are in — and the health of those relationships is often the most accurate indicator of how well the Pattern is actually running in your life.

Reality in relationships

The failure mode in most struggling relationships is a mutual retreat from reality. Both parties are responding to their interpretation of the other — the compressed, emotionally edited version — rather than to the actual person and the actual situation.

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